This reunion year is huge! Let’s just say I’m a mature graduate! But, like many people, I’m stressing about what to wear and more importantly, what it all means! Can a school reunion be good for my health and well-being? I have a couple of thoughts to share.
First, we now look like our parents instead of the students I remember! I find this disturbing and funny, too! Somehow, I thought of others (like my parents) getting older, not me, not us! There is a mix of emotions about aging, a little insecurity (work, retirement, and life), and grudging acceptance. After all, we are adults now! I wouldn’t want to change time and return to my 18- or 21-year-old self, would you?
Second thought, we represent a rich, diverse group. Our adult lives reflect meaningful work, marriage, divorce, children, travel, and more. Our connection to the school was not just classes but a solid affinity for clubs, organizations, and communities reflecting us. Your “community” could have been band, team sports, fraternities, LBGT, language clubs, theater, and students (Hispanic, Jewish, African, etc.). Schools (especially colleges) nurture and support many communities and interests under one big tent.
My third thought takes me to the inevitable comparison game! I look around at many accomplished people and wonder: ‘Have I done enough personally and professionally?’ Did I fully challenge myself? Some classmates did what they said they would, while others landed in other roles and places. Grown-up me knows everyone has faced detours, successes, and failures in life.
So, we’re returning to our alma mater! Admittedly, I’m grateful! For me, college facilitated many incredible adventures and life experiences. I regret not sticking with Spanish and pursuing a study abroad program! Back then, I gave up too quickly when challenged! Today, I’m confident and open to learning! That’s the endearing gift of school!
My friends and I decided to embrace the moment and have fun. Cheers to all! Go Cats!
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