Friendship, giving and love

“Every gift from a friend is a wish for your happiness.”

Richard Bach, Author, IQ Daily Inspiration

I’m a sucker for kindness!  I welcome genuine expressions of love, big and small.  Today, this quote grabbed my attention.  This past year, I cherished cards, e-mails, jokes, letters, texts, selfies, and phone calls.  I’ve found great comfort in intimate, safe, and timely conversations about family, faith, health, politics, race, work, and then some. 

I’ve loved moments when a friend cared enough to help me solve a perplexing problem with my computer, my phone, and my car!  Yes, I was upset and needed help!  One friend listened patiently, laughed with me, and offered solutions as I bemoaned an ant infestation in my vehicle.  It took months to get rid of those things!  One friend surprised me with a lovely lavender bath & beauty basket early this year.  I’m still relaxing and soaking up the love months later!  

I can’t forget friends who counseled me on how to shop smarter on Amazon, pointed me to new exercise classes on YouTube, invited me on socially distanced walks, and helped me master new recipes this past year on the phone.  And OMG, how many times have we shared Corvid 19- related articles, videos, and other information to keep each other safe!

Today, a friend surprised me with a link to a sleep and meditation app I need.  A new friend also made time to network with me about career opportunities in the Health and Wellness Industry.  I suddenly recall an old colleague I needed career advice from, and I hunted down in Chicago.   He had a big job, a busy schedule, and a half dozen degrees and professional initials behind his name.  He laughed and said, “we’re all super busy with work, but never too busy for a friend!”

I try to be a good friend, one who gives as often as I receive.  I agree with Richard Bach’s quote wholeheartedly – every gift from a friend is a wish for your happiness.