I recently listened to a first-time speaker and social worker present an “Icebreaker” or introduction speech at a toastmasters meeting. She spoke about her state agency’s mission and her job. I was touched by her interest in helping clients “where they are, “she said. I loved the thought of respecting a person’s current place and Googgled this expression. I found the following:
Meeting someone where they are means bridging the gap between your expectations and where the other person is coming from. It means intentionally listening to understand their values, needs, desires, and even their trauma responses. … We make assumptions and offer advice even when the person hasn’t asked for it. Jan 30, 2021, Google.
I thought about times in my own life when I wanted help and was more receptive when I was ready and asked for it. I wasn’t crazy about unsolicited advice! Who is!
Hearing this professional hit home for me. She was genuine, compassionate, and smart. It would be easy to have an engaging conversation after this.
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